Most of us are vain in nature. I found this trait “prominently subtle” in men. Not being sexist. But it is true. The more successful the man is, the more vain he can be. Women express vanity in clothes, jewellery and body shape. Men express it in wealth, status and indeed many in their clothes and shoes as well, not just cars and beautiful girlfriends. “They think I am rich.” “They think I am capable.” “They think I am beautiful.” Once we have this feeling in us, we feel good about ourselves. I suppose there’s nothing wrong about that. We [Read more...]